Co-coaching is a more structured form of career change help than just having a Career Change Buddy.
You and your co-coach will need to make a commitment to meeting regularly to support one another.
But if you have found a friend or colleague who is also serious about changing careers, then why not give co-coaching a try?
There are no set rules for this. Career change help can come from many sources. It could be a friend who you know well. It could be a work mate from your current or from a previous job.
It could even be someone you have met through networking – co-coaching could be the way that you help one another.
You may want to think carefully about using a close family member – they are sometimes just too close, and the outcomes of the changes you want may be too closely intertwined for successful co-coaching.
But what really matters is that the person you choose is equally committed to making a career change and they are willing to meet with you at regular intervals.
It is important that you make your meetings more than just a chat over a cup of coffee. Offering each other career change help is a serious matter. Treat them as mini business meetings. You should agree the following:
The key to successful co-coaching and offering real career change help is careful and attentive listening.
You take turns to be coach and coachee for half the session, then swop over. While you are coach, your task is to focus all your attention on the coachee and his/her issues. Ask them questions (see below) about their career change goal and about their progress towards it.
Try to avoid telling them what to do or giving them advice. It is best to help them to find solutions that will work for them.
Also be careful about straying into very personal territory. Agree with your coaching partner that you may ask them about personal matters if they seem to be affecting their progress, but that they have permission to say 'I don't want to talk about that' if they so choose.
Keep the focus positive and directed towards solutions to the current situation and on future goals. The focus should also be on them and what they can do, not on trying to 'fix' other people who neither of you can influence.
Here is a selection of questions to get you started.
If you are brainstorming options, keep asking 'what else?' It is amazing what ideas people can come up with if you just push them a little!
It is important that you always end the session agreeing what the next step will be in each other's action plan. The purpose of co-coaching is change and that means doing something, not just talking about it. However small, however slow, there needs to be forward movement, so make sure you agree a specific action with a deadline by which it will be done.
And don't forget to celebrate the progress you both make along the way.
Co-coaching can be really useful if you are planning a career change. Help from someone who is equally committed will keep you both focused and on target. Why not try it?
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